Women and Cancer
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When You're the Parent
When You're the Parent Caring for a Child with Cancer

Many women balance a diagnosis of cancer with parenting responsibilities. While their parenting role can often be hard to manage along with the demands and stress of treatment, for many survivors their children also remain their greatest joy and their most powerful inspiration during this journey.

For other women, their experience with the impact of a cancer diagnosis will come as the parent of a child with cancer. For these families, the adjustments that come with treatment and survivorship affect the entire family, as parents and the child adjust to the new normal of a life with cancer.

For women facing cancer in both of these situations, we offer “When You’re the Parent,” a frequently occurring department in the magazine devoted to issues surrounding parenting concerns for women who are themselves diagnosed and also pediatric cancers and support for families of children and adolescents with cancer.

In past issues of Women&Cancer, articles in this section have included essays from women who speak to balancing motherhood and survivorship, profiles of childhood cancer advocacy organizations, an article describing kids cancer camps and retreats, and a listing of resources. Women experience cancer in many different ways, and when they view the experience as a mother and a survivor or as the parent of a child with the disease, we hope that they will benefit from the resources and inspiring articles we can provide.

Spring 2008 Articles
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Truly Mom Truly Grateful
Together with three dedicated friends, Stage IV breast cancer survivor Michelle Nicastro puts her gratitude and her passion for motherhood to work in a company created to help busy moms spend time where it really counts.
Additional Articles
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A Place of Their Own
The Children’s Treehouse Foundation and CLIMB (Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery) offer support and guidance to kids whose parents or grandparents are diagnosed with cancer.
The Sweetest Inspiration
For one survivor, motherhood takes on new meaning in the face of breast cancer.
Kimmie Cares
Specially-designed dolls offer comfort, prompt conversation, and benefit women in need.
Art With Heart
A Seattle organization creates an extraordinary activity book—part therapy, part coloring book—for kids who need a little something extra to keep them entertained, and understood, in the hospital.
Understanding and Optimizing Cancer Care for Children
Nothing creates more anxiety and fear in a parent than when a physician says, “Your child has cancer.” The fact that more than 80 percent of children now diagnosed with cancer will survive does not lessen the horror associated with this statement. After an initial period of shock, parents find themselves seeking answers to many difficult questions: Why did this occur? Why my child? Am I the only person dealing with this? Where should my child be treated? How will my child’s cancer be treated? Will my child live?
Until Every Child Diagnosed is Cured
What is a parent, a friend, or a child himself looking for when reaching out, searching online for resources to help make sense of a childhood cancer diagnosis? It might be information about the diagnosis or perhaps help with managing a particular side effect or an insurance issue. Maybe a child wants to read the stories of other families that can lend needed inspiration to get through the day. A friend might be looking for information on how to plan a fundraising event for childhood cancer research, or a parent might want tips on helping a child deal with a sibling’s diagnosis. Parents who have already seen a child through treatment might want information on how to make a difference on Capitol Hill—how to contact their lawmakers about legislation related to pediatric cancer research that could use their support.
Animals Lend a Paw for Kids with Cancer
Anyone who has experienced the unconditional friendship, unabashed displays of joy, and soothing comfort of stroking the soft coat of an animal companion knows that these can be some of the most reliable sources of happiness—something a child undergoing cancer treatment can certainly use. Though most animal lovers wouldn’t dispute the benefits of time spent with furry or feathered friends, the practice of animal-assisted therapy (AAT) is still gaining momentum as a recognized path to healing and wellness.
Parenting Through Cancer
Having cancer and having children are often at odds with each other, especially if you are determined (as I am) to do both well. Raising children “well” is something most of us aspire to. Bringing up educated, compassionate, and functional human beings is our gift to the next generation; and, indeed, there is no better goal in life than to try to shape our kids into people of whom we can be proud. Doing it is another matter. If it were an easy task, the endless supply of “how-to” books, talk shows, and licensed practitioners devoted to the topic would disappear, and parents would be forever smiling and relaxed.
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